我还是有一些资格说这话的,I happen to have a very close person who is a buddist. because for buddists, you don't demand anything and always are a little too nagetive. As their family who don't believe it, it cause lots of conflicts in this real world.
-meat_head(黑哥哥);
2007-6-21(#3756345@0)
你 happen to have A very close person,我 happen to know quite a few 居士s and their families in 佛光山. 我赢了。
-duoshaosuanshao(不多也);
2007-6-21(#3756367@0)
都信佛的人了还这么在乎输赢,再修炼几年吧。btw, I have one in my family so I have experienced this...
-meat_head(黑哥哥);
2007-6-21(#3756383@0)
Let me btw to you, I have one in my family who asks me to go to church every Sunday. I don't like the 查经班 lady push me and my family that hard, so I went to FGS and talked about my trouble. The 法师 told me Christianity faith is also a good 因缘,
-duoshaosuanshao(不多也);
2007-6-21{302}(#3756532@0)
much better than nothing to believe. If she ask you to the church, don't fight against your wife, It doesn't hurt to go to church with her, but it hurts your family if you fight. You read the 佛经 everyday (sadly I do not have time in reading every day :(), you will find where you heart should go.
Speechless... how do you know it's my wife -- before you give a lecture, please don't make any assumption.
-meat_head(黑哥哥);
2007-6-21(#3756644@0)
Individual case doesn't necessarily mean anything. I can give you tons of cases that non-buddhist family have lot of issues, while lots of buddhist families have a very happy life, does it would change your mind, mostly NO, so ......
-yellow(fenyullow);
2007-6-21(#3756421@0)
Do you live with them? how do you know they 没有任何矛盾? please read all my posts, I meant if one wants to 出家, his family who don't have same faith will suffer
-meat_head(黑哥哥);
2007-6-21(#3756926@0)